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一个人要想做成自己的事,必须面临竞争压力的考验,因为这是一个竞争的社会,无论在竞争中获得成功还是遭受失败,人人都要承受压力。现实生活之中,谁也逃脱不了这种压力的束缚。欲成大事者,因目标高远,压力可能会更大。但若欲成大事,就必须能承受这种压力,把压力当成推进人生的动力
许多事在顺利的状况下都做一事无成,而在受曲折后,在经受悲痛的“浸染”后,却能做得更完美、更理想。压力能使人发生奇特的力气,人们最出色的任务往往是在处于逆境的状况下完成的。有个词叫“百忍成金”。忍受不是屈服,忍受是积聚力气,预备下一轮的冲刺。也许,突如其来的暴风雨就会使原本心境不佳的你会愈加伤心,但你不需求以在暴风雨中耸立的姿态来表达自己的不满;不要理会它,由于没有暴风雨时的悲痛,便没有雨过天晴的欣喜。也许,突然来临的寒冬会使原本衣衫单薄的你冰冷彻骨,但你不需求以整个身躯去撞击冬天的大门来表达自己的对立;不要在乎它,冬天来了,春天还会远吗?
我们接受磨练、曲折,去接受生活中的一切压力,能使成大事者在思想感情上遭到多方撞击,从中感悟人生的真理,自觉掌握人生的方向。相反,人若是太幸运了,缺乏压力,就会沉于懒散,而不知应战人生的意义和快乐。关于那些擅长成事的人而言,他们不惧怕压力,由于压力会来临在每团体的头上;相反,他们更喜欢“压力推进法”,在压力中做大人生局面。理想往往会与理想发生矛盾,有了矛
盾就会有了压力。也许你的心中有一盏指路明灯,可它似乎可望不可及,折磨着你那进取的心;或许你想做些坏事,却把事情弄得一团糟;或许你憎恨言而无信,可又耽于世上的一切琐事;或许你播下了种子,可你不善耕耘,费尽心机也结不出硕果;或许你很想逾越自我,也理想却被逐一否认。每天生活中压力就渐渐向我们袭来,我们必需学会忍受压力的折磨。有个成语叫“委曲求全“。忍受并不表示着屈服,忍受是凝聚力气,预备下场、下一次的成功;蓄锐攀上高峰。
木以绳直,金以淬刚。世上成大事的人无不是经过坚苦磨练的。困难的环境普通是会使人沉沦下去,但是在试图成大事人的眼里,困难终会被克制,这就是所谓“困难困苦,玉成于琢”.
同学们,我们在学习中会遇到许多压力,学好接受压力,变压力为动力,努力拼搏吧。
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你们好,给你们讲个故事。
上帝造了一群鱼。这些鱼种类多样,大小各异。为了让它们具有生存本领,上帝把它们的身体做成流线型,而且十分光滑,这样游动起来可以大大减少水的阻力。上帝使每种鱼拥有短而有力的鳍,使鱼在大海中自由自在地游动。
待上帝把这些鱼放到大海中的时候,忽然想起一个问题,鱼的身体比重大于水,这样,鱼一旦停下来,它就会向海底沉下去,沉到一定深度,就会被水的压死。于是,上帝赶紧找到这些鱼,又给它们一个法宝,那就是鱼鳔。鱼鳔是一个可以自己控制的气囊,鱼可以用增大或缩小气囊的办法,来调节沉浮。这样,鱼在海里就轻松多了,有了气囊,它不但可以随意沉浮,还可以停在某地休息。鱼鳔对鱼来讲,实在是太有用了。
出乎上帝意料的是,鲨鱼没有前来安装鱼鳔。鲨鱼是个调皮的家伙,它一入海,便消失得无影无踪,上帝费了好大的劲儿也没有找到它。上帝想,这也许是天意吧。既然找不到鲨鱼,那么只好由它去吧。这对鲨鱼来讲实在太不公平了,它会由于缺少鳔而很快沦为海洋中的弱者,最后被淘汰。为此,上帝感到很悲伤。
亿万年之后,上帝想到他放到海中的那群鱼来,他忽然想看看鱼们现在到底如何?他尤其想知道,没有鱼鳔的鲨鱼如今到底怎么样了,是否已经被别的鱼吃光了。
当上帝将海里的鱼家族都找来的时候,他已经分不清哪些是当初的大鱼小鱼,白鱼黑鱼了。因为,经过亿万年的变化,所有的鱼都变了模样,连当初的影子都找不到了。面对千姿百态,大大小小的鱼,上帝问:“谁是当初的鲨鱼?”这时,一群威猛强壮,神气飞扬的鱼游上前来,它们就是海中的霸王——鲨鱼。上帝十分惊讶,心想,这怎么可能呢?当初,只有鲨鱼没有鱼鳔,它要比别的鱼多承担多少和啊,可现在看来,鲨鱼无疑是鱼类中的佼佼者。这到底是怎么回事呢?
鲨鱼说:“我们没有鱼鳔,就无时无刻不面对,因为没有鱼鳔,我们就一刻也不能停止游动,否则我们就会沉入海底,死无葬身之地。所以,亿万年来,我们从未停止过游动,没有停止过抗争,这就是我们的生存方式。”
永远是前进的动力!
谢谢大家,我的演讲完毕。
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尊敬的老师,亲爱的同学们:
马儿在被鞭策的时候因为知道了疼痛,才能迈开四足飞驰起来。人掌握了马儿的这一特质并成功利用这一特质分担自己的辛苦。动力都需要压力来成就,动物是这样,人也是如此。
假期是每个学生最潇洒的时期,作业就成了最不“受宠”的原配。相反,那些电子产品就让我们玩得乐此不疲。即使玩腻所有游戏,也要让作业保持绝对的干净。但是要开学了,所有人都奋笔疾书,将一个假期的“作业债”用仅仅一天就全部完成了。虽然临时抱佛脚不是一个好习惯,但这就足以证明:压力产生动力。
老人们都说种树的时候一定不要给它们浇太多水,一定不要让树对人类浇的水产生依赖心。只有让树感受点压力,在没有水的土地里努力寻找水源,才能扎根更深。原来,树跟人一样,也需要压力。
压力就像中药那样,虽苦,却有强大的药效。人们对压力总是又爱又恨,它能击垮一个人,亦能成就一个人。
人人都需要压力不是吗?汲取这其中的营养,才能成长。
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压力大,怎么办?压力会让你心跳加速、呼吸加快、额头冒汗!当压力成为全民健康公敌时,有研究显示只有当你与压力为敌时,它才会危害你的健康。心理学家kelly mcgonigal 从积极的一面分析压力,教你如何使压力变成你的朋友!
stress. it makes your heart pound, your breathing quicken and your forehead sweat. but while stress has been made into a public health enemy, new research suggests that stress may only be bad for you if you believe that to be the case. psychologist kelly mcgonigal urges us to see stress as a positive, and introduces us to an unsung mechanism for stress reduction: reaching out to others.
kelly mcgonigal translates academic research into practical strategies for health, happiness and personal success.
why you should listen to her:
stanford university psychologist kelly mcgonigal is a leader in the growing field of “science-help.” through books, articles, courses and workshops, mcgonigal works to help us understand and implement the latest scientific findings in psychology, neuroscience and medicine.
straddling the worlds of research and practice, mcgonigal holds positions in both the stanford graduate school of business and the school of medicine. her most recent book, the willpower instinct, e_plores the latest research on motivation, temptation and procrastination, as well as what it takes to transform habits, persevere at challenges and make a successful change.
she is now researching a new book about the 'upside of stress,' which will look at both why stress is good for us, and what makes us good at stress. in her words: 'the old understanding of stress as a unhelpful relic of our animal instincts is being replaced by the understanding that stress actually makes us socially smart -- it's what allows us to be fully human.'
i have a confession to make, but first, i want you to make a little confession to me. in the past year, i want you to just raise your hand
if you've e_perienced relatively little stress. anyone?
how about a moderate amount of stress?
who has e_perienced a lot of stress? yeah. me too.
but that is not my confession. my confession is this: i am a health psychologist, and my mission is to help people be happier and healthier. but i fear that something i've been teaching for the last 10 years is doing more harm than good, and it has to do with stress. for years i've been telling people, stress makes you sick. it increases the risk of everything from the common cold to cardiovascular disease. basically, i've turned stress into the enemy. but i have changed my mind about stress, and today, i want to change yours.
let me start with the study that made me rethink my whole approach to stress. this study tracked 30,000 adults in the united states for eight years, and they started by asking people, 'how much stress have you e_perienced in the last year?' they also asked, 'do you believe that stress is harmful for your health?' and then they used public death records to find out who died.
(laughter)
okay. some bad news first. people who e_perienced a lot of stress in the previous year had a 43 percent increased risk of dying. but that was only true for the people who also believed that stress is harmful for your health. (laughter) people who e_perienced a lot of stress but did not view stress as harmful were no more likely to die. in fact, they had the lowest risk of dying of anyone in the study, including people who had relatively little stress.
now the researchers estimated that over the eight years they were tracking deaths, 182,000 americans died prematurely, not from stress, but from the belief that stress is bad for you. (laughter) that is over 20,000 deaths a year. now, if that estimate is correct, that would make believing stress is bad for you the 15th largest cause of death in the united states last year, killing more people than skin cancer, hiv/aids and homicide.
(laughter)
you can see why this study freaked me out. here i've been spending so much energy telling people stress is bad for your health.
so this study got me wondering: can changing how you think about stress make you healthier? and here the science says yes. when you change your mind about stress, you can change your body's response to stress.
now to e_plain how this works, i want you all to pretend that you are participants in a study designed to stress you out. it's called the social stress test. you come into the laboratory, and you're told you have to give a five-minute impromptu speech on your personal weaknesses to a panel of e_pert evaluators sitting right in front of you, and to make sure you feel the pressure, there are bright lights and a camera in your face, kind of like this. and the evaluators have been trained to give you discouraging, non-verbal feedback like this.
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now that you're sufficiently demoralized, time for part two: a math test. and unbeknownst to you, the e_perimenter has been trained to harass you during it. now we're going to all do this together. it's going to be fun. for me.
okay. i want you all to count backwards from 996 in increments of seven. you're going to do this out loud as fast as you can, starting with 996. go! audience: (counting) go faster. faster please. you're going too slow. stop. stop, stop, stop. that guy made a mistake. we are going to have to start all over again. (laughter) you're not very good at this, are you? okay, so you get the idea. now, if you were actually in this study, you'd probably be a little stressed out. your heart might be pounding, you might be breathing faster, maybe breaking out into a sweat. and normally, we interpret these physical changes as an_iety or signs that we aren't coping very well with the pressure.
but what if you viewed them instead as signs that your body was energized, was preparing you to meet this challenge? now that is e_actly what participants were told in a study conducted at harvard university. before they went through the social stress test, they were taught to rethink their stress response as helpful. that pounding heart is preparing you for action. if you're breathing faster, it's no problem. it's getting more o_ygen to your brain. and participants who learned to view the stress response as helpful for their performance, well, they were less stressed out, less an_ious, more confident, but the most fascinating finding to me was how their physical stress response changed. now, in a typical stress response, your heart rate goes up, and your blood vessels constrict like this. and this is one of the reasons that chronic stress is sometimes associated with cardiovascular disease. it's not really healthy to be in this state all the time. but in the study, when participants viewed their stress response as helpful, their blood vessels stayed rela_ed like this. their heart was still pounding, but this is a much healthier cardiovascular profile. it actually looks a lot like what happens in moments of joy and courage. over a lifetime of stressful e_periences, this one biological change could be the difference between a stress-induced heart attack at age 50 and living well into your 90s. and this is really what the new science of stress reveals, that how you think about stress matters.
so my goal as a health psychologist has changed. i no longer want to get rid of your stress. i want to make you better at stress. and we just did a little intervention. if you raised your hand and said you'd had a lot of stress in the last year, we could have saved your life, because hopefully the ne_t time your heart is pounding from stress, you're going to remember this talk and you're going to think to yourself, this is my body helping me rise to this challenge. and when you view stress in that way, your body believes you, and your stress response becomes healthier.
now i said i have over a decade of demonizing stress to redeem myself from, so we are going to do one more intervention. i want to tell you about one of the most under-appreciated aspects of the stress response, and the idea is this: stress makes you social.
to understand this side of stress, we need to talk about a hormone, o_ytocin, and i know o_ytocin has already gotten as much hype as a hormone can get. it even has its own cute nickname, the cuddle hormone, because it's released when you hug someone. but this is a very small part of what o_ytocin is involved in. o_ytocin is a neuro-hormone. it fine-tunes your brain's social instincts. it primes you to do things that strengthen close relationships. o_ytocin makes you crave physical contact with your friends and family. it enhances your empathy. it even makes you more willing to help and support the people you care about. some people have even suggested we should snort o_ytocin to become more compassionate and caring. but here's what most people don't understand about o_ytocin. it's a stress hormone. your pituitary gland pumps this stuff out as part of the stress response. it's as much a part of your stress response as the adrenaline that makes your heart pound. and when o_ytocin is released in the stress response, it is motivating you to seek support. your biological stress response is nudging you to tell someone how you feel instead of bottling it up. your stress response wants to make sure you notice when someone else in your life is struggling so that you can support each other. when life is difficult, your stress response wants you to be surrounded by people who care about you.
okay, so how is knowing this side of stress going to make you healthier? well, o_ytocin doesn't only act on your brain. it also acts on your body, and one of its main roles in your body is to protect your cardiovascular system from the effects of stress. it's a natural anti-inflammatory. it also helps your blood vessels stay rela_ed during stress. but my favorite effect on the body is actually on the heart. your heart has receptors for this hormone, and o_ytocin helps heart cells regenerate and heal from any stress-induced damage. this stress hormone strengthens your heart, and the cool thing is that all of these physical benefits of o_ytocin are enhanced by social contact and social support, so when you reach out to others under stress, either to seek support or to help someone else, you release more of this hormone, your stress response becomes healthier, and you actually recover faster from stress. i find this amazing, that your stress response has a built-in mechanism for stress resilience, and that mechanism is human connection.
i want to finish by telling you about one more study. and listen up, because this study could also save a life. this study tracked about 1,000 adults in the united states, and they ranged in age from 34 to 93, and they started the study by asking, 'how much stress have you e_perienced in the last year?' they also asked, 'how much time have you spent helping out friends, neighbors, people in your community?' and then they used public records for the ne_t five years to find out who died.
okay, so the bad news first: for every major stressful life e_perience, like financial difficulties or family crisis, that increased the risk of dying by 30 percent. but -- and i hope you are e_pecting a but by now -- but that wasn't true for everyone. people who spent time caring for others showed absolutely no stress-related increase in dying. zero. caring created resilience. and so we see once again that the harmful effects of stress on your health are not inevitable. how you think and how you act can transform your e_perience of stress. when you choose to view your stress response as helpful, you create the biology of courage. and when you choose to connect with others under stress, you can create resilience. now i wouldn't necessarily ask for more stressful e_periences in my life, but this science has given me a whole new appreciation for stress. stress gives us access to our hearts. the compassionate heart that finds joy and meaning in connecting with others, and yes, your pounding physical heart, working so hard to give you strength and energy, and when you choose to view stress in this way, you're not just getting better at stress, you're actually making a pretty profound statement. you're saying that you can trust yourself to handle life's challenges, and you're remembering that you don't have to face them alone.
thank you.
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chris anderson: this is kind of amazing, what you're telling us. it seems amazing to me that a belief about stress can make so much difference to someone's life e_pectancy. how would that e_tend to advice, like, if someone is making a lifestyle choice between, say, a stressful job and a non-stressful job, does it matter which way they go? it's equally wise to go for the stressful job so long as you believe that you can handle it, in some sense?
kelly mcgonigal: yeah, and one thing we know for certain is that chasing meaning is better for your health than trying to avoid discomfort. and so i would say that's really the best way to make decisions, is go after what it is that creates meaning in your life and then trust yourself to handle the stress that follows.
ca: thank you so much, kelly. it's pretty cool. km: thank you.
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good evening ,i am joy and glad to give you a speech about stress , yes , just the topic you see on the screen.
psychologist tell us that stress is a state of worry caused by the problem of living , such as too much work or study , heavy responsibilities , and quickened pace of life .statistics show that stress comes from every detail in our life .financial problems , poor health , being laid off may be the stress that most adults now suffering .as students in the university , we are also under our special stress .
while study , having to take various tests and submit a project against a deadline may put a great pressure on us .and the things make us felt stressed may be our parents’s greater e_pectations on us than we could reach .later , when we are likely to graduate , some other problems will also annoy us .
i think we will worry a lot about our ability to compete in the job market and how we can best use what we’ve learned at college in our future job .the chief problem we should face to is our atitude towards stress .people usually say they can not live in the sun e_cept they escape from stress .it’s unwelcome ! yes , however , very necessary .just image a world where stress does not e_ist and people lead their life in a very comfortable way .but is this kind of living condition as perfect as we hope ?
without stress , they may feel very satisfied with the current life but lack of power to discover new things .too much satisfaction result in nothing e_cept a countermarch of the society .no stress , no development .so a certain amount of stress is good .
it can stimulate us and increase our level of alertness .and our answer to stress is another vital problem .how to do with ourselves when stress suddenly break into our life ? to wave the white flag and admit our unability , to give up to our ideality , or worstly , just to suicide as to put an end to everything …
of cause not .the principle is to tackle with stress gentlely and harmoniously.we should try our best to release ourselves .
such as to do some e_ercise , to linsen to traditional chinese music or classical music to ease our minds and to learn to view these changes of life as challenges .it’s no use crying over spilt milk .only to accept what has happened can solve the problem .
ok , i think i was under large stress 3 minutes before , but now i am here and have finished my speech .
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人生或有太多的不如意,很多人会用放纵来解决问题,过度的放纵会让自己掉以轻心,本来人生的路就很险阻,不留意只会让自己掉到人生的谷底,所以聪明的人总是给自己压力来提高警惕。在过险崖的时候会看到一个奇怪的现象,走过的路人没有两手空空的,身上总是会背上些东西,或许有些人会疑惑,原来路就会很危险,还背上些东西那不跟危险吗?如果你这样想,那你过山崖的时候就会很危险了。其实,身上背些东西增加身体的压力,提高自己的警惕,这样过山崖时候才会更加安全。所以,压力是你大意的提醒。
压力,扔你勇敢的生活下去,马鹏飞,一个悲惨的家庭,3岁就失去了父母。与失明的奶奶相依为命,对于一个3岁的孩子来讲,这是一个多么大的打击,在他小小的心灵上施加了多么大大的压力,然而,他没有被压力压倒,这个压力却成了他勇敢生活下去的动力,他没有被困难打倒,他想到还有奶奶要照顾,五岁的小男孩就开始做家务,可他却还不到灶台高,早中晚总会看到一个身影奔跑在学校与家之间。“穷人的孩子早当家”,没错,压力,才会促进你成长,支撑你活下去。
但是,压力过大也会爆胎,压力是我们的动力,但也不能施加过度,要不然会出现爆胎的现象。所以,生活中的压力必不可少,但我们不能过度施加,张国荣就是典型的例子。曾经有多少人为他的结果叹惜,不解。那样火红的人生就在一瞬间从高点摔到地面而粉粹,张国荣的自杀引起了社会的谈论—原因到底是什么?据有关人士说,在他红火的那年代,他的思想抱负都很大,心里压力也很大,以至思想经常得不到控制。最终走向绝路。所以也要注意,要适度给自己施加压力。
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在物理学中,压力与支持力是一对作用力与反作用力,同时存在,同时消失。有了压力才会有支持力。由f=μfn得出,有了压力才会有动力。所以,人生需要压力,为你提供前进的动力,压力就是动力。
人生或有太多的不如意,很多人会用放纵来解决问题,过度的放纵会让自己掉以轻心,本来人生的路就很险阻,不留意只会让自己掉到人生的谷底,所以聪明的人总是给自己压力来提高警惕。在过险崖的时候会看到一个奇怪的现象,走过的路人没有两手空空的,身上总是会背上些东西,或许有些人会疑惑,原来路就会很危险,还背上些东西那不跟危险吗?如果你这样想,那你过山崖的时候就会很危险了。其实,身上背些东西增加身体的压力,提高自己的警惕,这样过山崖时候才会更加安全。所以,压力是你大意的提醒。
压力,让你勇敢的生活下去,马鹏飞,一个悲惨的家庭,3岁就失去了父母。与失明的奶奶相依为命,对于一个3岁的孩子来讲,这是一个多么大的打击,在他小小的心灵上施加了多么大大的压力,然而,他没有被压力压倒,这个压力却成了他勇敢生活下去的动力,他没有被困难打倒,他想到还有奶奶要照顾,五岁的小男孩就开始做家务,可他却还不到灶台高,早中晚总会看到一个身影奔跑在学校与家之间。“穷人的孩子早当家”,没错,压力,才会促进你成长,支撑你活下去。
但是,压力过大也会爆胎,压力是我们的动力,但也不能施加过度,要不然会出现爆胎的现象。所以,生活中的压力必不可少,但我们不能过度施加,张国荣就是典型的例子。曾经有多少人为他的结果叹惜,不解。那样火红的人生就在一瞬间从高点摔到地面而粉粹,张国荣的自杀引起了社会的谈论—原因到底是什么?据有关人士说,在他红火的那年代,他的思想抱负都很大,心里压力也很大,以至思想经常得不到控制。最终走向绝路。所以也要注意,要适度给自己施加压力。
压力就是动力,压力能抑制你的放纵,提醒你的大意,想要成功,给自己施加给压力吧!
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每个人的生活中都会有很多压力,压力可以说是无处不在,以至于很多人都会厌烦他。但是,人生可以没有压力吗?
学生有考试考到好成绩的压力,上班的人有工作的压力,打工的人还有干活的压力……正是因为这些压力,才能让学生们更好地学习,让上班的人们有工作的动力,让打工的人能更有力地干活……
假如世界上没有了压力,那么人们就会失去生活的动力,虽然人们会因之感到很轻松,但在一个没有生活动力的世界,怎么还会有好生活,这回世界还能因为什么变得绚丽多彩?人们只会觉得无聊,日复一日,年复一年,厌恶了当前的生活。
所以,压力对一个人的一生很重要。有了压力,人们才会有生活的动力;有了压力,才会有一个好生活;有了压力,世界才会变得绚丽多彩;有了压力,人们才不会感到无聊,不会延误当前的生活。因为压力使得人们顾不得去想那么多事情,他们把所有的时间都放在了学习和工作上,很少会有一些空闲的时间。
压力,也就是人生活的动力。我们有压力,同时我们也在一点点地去摆脱压力。但是,压力真的容易被拜托吗?一个人从小学开始,就有学习的压力,高考压力更为强烈,大学毕业之后,就会有找工作的压力,找到工作之后,就会出现工作的压力,不让自己被辞退。
所以人的一生有很多压力,人们摆脱了一些压力之后,就会出现新的压力。人生岂能无压力?就让我们带着压力去过充实的生活吧!
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今天我在一本书上看到了这样一幅漫画。那画上画着一个三口之家,父亲手里拿着一个照相机,照相机上还装了一个“剪刀手”。他半蹲在那里,满脸堆笑,想给孩子好好拍一张照片;母亲右手握着一根竹竿。竹竿上挂着一根线,线上吊着一个茄子,她也想让孩子笑一笑;儿子手里捧着100分的试卷,眼冒金星,脸上没有表情,他背着一个沉重的书包。看了这副漫画,我感触颇深。
是啊!现在的父母给孩子施加了太多压力。孩子们都没有来玩耍娱乐的时间。他们本来可以玩耍运动的时间,都被作业、练习本、试卷、背单词、抄词语……给“占领”了。现在的孩子,压力山大,生活没有自由。现在报纸上可以看到许多孩子,因为压力大,家庭负担重而自杀。这都是父母“望子成龙,望女成凤”心切带来的后果。虽然父母这样做是为了孩子好,希望他们以后过上幸福的生活。但是我认为不能因为是为了他们好,就给他们自由,不给他们玩耍的时间。这样反而减少了他们与人交际的时间,以后在社会难以立足。
我也有类似的经历。那是一个冬天,期末考试刚刚结束,每个孩子都高高兴兴的,可有一个人却不一样——那就是我。因为我知道,妈妈马上要给我送上新年的“大礼”。——试卷、习题。果然不出我所料,我一回家就看见妈妈笑眯眯的看着我,手里还抱着一大堆试卷。见我来了,说:“儿子回来了,把这三张试卷做完,不做完不许吃饭。”我连忙上楼开始做试卷。我也想快点吃到饭,我做的很快,马上就做完了。因为做完了,就不用做了。谁知,吃完午饭,妈妈又拿着,《课本与奥数》向我走来……
压力不是福。父母们,请不要再给孩子施加压力了。
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